A lot of times we get couples that aren’t too sure of who pays for what so we decided to share a little something to help with that.  Here’s a great list for you to review on traditionally who pays for what.

The Bride’s Family:
  • Wedding ring for the groom
  • Gifts for the attendants
  • Accommodation for out-of-town attendants
  • Wedding gift for the groom
  • All costs of the reception (including bar!)
  • Bride’s wedding attire/trousseau
  • Invitations, announcements, thank you notes and mailing costs
  • Photographer
  • Videographer
  • Ceremony décor and venue costs
  • Flowers and accessories for bridesmaids, flower girl & ring bearer
  • Transportation for bridal party on wedding day from ceremony to reception.
  • All gratuities for all services: parking, security, venue, caterer, etc.
  • Bridesmaid luncheon
The Groom’s Family:
  • Bride’s rings including the engagement ring
  • Honeymoon
  • Wedding gift for the bride
  • Marriage license
  • Groomsmen gifts
  • Accommodation for out-of-town groomsmen
  • Flowers for the bride
  • Going-away corsage
  • Corsages for mothers, special ladies
  • Boutonnieres for men in wedding party
  • Gloves, ties and accessories for the men in the wedding party
  • Fee for clergyperson or judge
  • Clothing for the wedding
  • Travel and lodging expenses
  • Rehearsal dinner
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds


The Attendants pay for:

  • Their wedding clothes and shoes
  • Travel expenses
  • Wedding gift for newlyweds
  • Women: bridal shower
  • Men: bachelor party